10 Valentines Day Self Love Quotes
Give yourself some self Care with our favourite Love Quotes.
(This post was originally published on February 14th 2019 and updated on January 15th 2024)
Self-love is a concept that deserves our attention, especially during the Valentine's season. Gone are the days when only couples celebrated Valentine's Day; it is now a time for everyone to appreciate themselves. So, forget chocolates and cheesy cards, this Valentine's Day, give yourself the gift of unshakeable confidence with our curated inspirational self-love quotes. Because guess what? The most inspiring love story you'll ever write is the one between you and you.
But sometimes, even the fiercest queens need a little reminder of their worth. That's where these 10 inspirational quotes come in – powerful nuggets of wisdom designed to uplift your spirit and rewrite your attitude about life. Regardless of relationship status - single, coupled, or somewhere in between, let these words be your torch as you carve your own trail of self-acceptance and joy. Remember, you are the universe's masterpiece, so go ahead and love yourself like you mean it.
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More Self-Love.
Our self-worth is one of the most important aspects of our lives. If you lack self-confidence, it will be challenging to attract positivity and self worth. To cultivate self-love, you must undergo a significant shift in how you perceive yourself. Self-love encompasses three key elements:
Self-acceptance: Embracing who you are.
Self-worth: Believing that you deserve all the good things that come your way.
Self-respect: Treating your body and mind with honor.
Therefore, this season and every day, prioritise intentional self-love and, as you wish, grant yourself more...
Chill Vibes Only: Taking a Breath.
In the midst of our busy lives, it's easy to overlook the importance of carving out time for ourselves. However, it is crucial to pause, unwind, and recharge. Getting caught up in the constant hustle can hinder our progress. Taking a breath and embracing self-love means recognizing the need to relax when necessary. This quote serves as a valuable reminder during chaotic and overwhelming moments. So, remember to just chill.
Guard Your Energy: Harnessing Positive Vibes.
The thoughts and actions we emit into the universe shape the energy around us, creating vibrations that influence others' thoughts and actions. As we navigate through our daily lives, we constantly interact with people and absorb their energies. If we fail to shield ourselves from negative energies, we may find ourselves feeling imbalanced or depleted.
That's why it's crucial to be mindful of the company we keep and the media we consume, including books, TV shows, movies, news sources, and magazines. Our bodies absorb these influences like sponges. This quote serves as a gentle reminder to be discerning in our connections. Your energy is precious, so choose your associations wisely. Embracing positive vibes leads to positive outcomes.
Choose Love, Reject Hate: Embracing Forgiveness
The path to self-love begins with the ability to forgive both ourselves and others and yes, we acknowledge that in certain circumstances, forgiveness can be challenging. However, holding onto past hurts and pain only generates negativity. To grow and evolve, we must grant ourselves and others the space to make mistakes. Instead of self-criticism, we should accept these missteps as part of our personal journey.
Forgiving ourselves involves releasing the negative emotions that harm us from within. By practicing forgiveness, we can move forward in life, gain the ability to reflect on all aspects of our lives—the good and the bad—and recognise the importance of forgiveness. With the world at our fingertips, harboring hate only hinders our progress. Let love guide your path and propel you towards success.
Small Steps, Giant Leaps
Small steps mean big results. The most common and greatest mistake when we start a new journey, is to quit and surrender when things get hard or difficult. How many times have you tried to do something, failed, and then gave up? We convince ourselves that our attempts don’t matter, but the truth is, every step counts. Self-love is about taking small, bold steps to achieve your goals without overwhelming yourself, which is key. So follow these rules, and you won't go wrong:
Never stop trying.
If you fail, fail fast and fail forward.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
Surround yourself with people that want to see you succeed and are willing to help you get there.
Take these steps and embrace the process – good, bad and ugly, and never give up! You’ll get there!
Be You, Do You (and Slay, Obviously)
In today's society, self-love is often misconstrued as selfishness or narcissism. However, the reality is quite the opposite. Loving yourself does not diminish love for others, nor does it hinder empathy or compassion. It does not mean you withhold support or wish for others to fail. It does not indicate a lack of concern for others' happiness or a disinterest in making a positive impact in the world.
Loving yourself means being content with who you are and having confidence in your abilities. It involves trusting your judgment and making sound decisions. It means believing that everything happens for a purpose and having the resilience to face any challenges that come your way. It's perfectly acceptable to prioritise your own needs at times to achieve personal growth, benefiting both yourself and others.
While not everyone may comprehend this, remember to stay true to yourself and pursue your goals for your own well-being. Be unapologetically you, do what aligns with your values, and do it all for yourself.
Be Classy At All Times.
Is it realistic to maintain a classy demeanour at all times? The answer is no, and honestly, who would want to? There are moments when we're at home and all we want to do is relax and be ourselves, even if it means being a little unconventional or carefree.
However, When we find ourselves in public settings, dealing with challenging individuals and situations, self-love means knowing how to handle them with grace. Michelle Obama, renowned for her elegance, summed it up perfectly when she said, "When they go low, we go high."
So, when you feel the urge to react strongly because someone is pushing your buttons or when the day isn't going as planned, self-love is about letting it slide, moving forward, staying cute, and keeping it classy.
whispers From The soul.
Here's the truth: If we allow ourselves a moment of stillness, we would discover solutions to our problems. Deep within, our souls hold the answers to our concerns and guide us towards resolutions. Our souls are the part of us that connects with others on a profound level.
To connect with your soul, practice meditation and prayer. Set aside at least five minutes of quiet time, and within this space, pose a question. The answers will come, but patience is key. If the answers don't immediately surface, don't worry. Carry on with your day, remaining open and receptive. Throughout the day, be prepared to listen. The answers will eventually reveal themselves.
Quitters? Never Heard Of her.
Life presents us with a series of trials. And the key factor that can significantly impact our ultimate outcome is not solely raw intelligence, but rather our unwavering focus and determination to pursue a goal without succumbing to distractions. Many individuals are prone to giving up when faced with difficulties. They fail to grasp that success is often preceded by a string of failures and challenges.
However, if you are willing to embrace these challenges, persevere through them, and extract valuable lessons from them, then you will ultimately achieve success. So, no matter how daunting life may appear at present, remember this: it will pass, and regardless of how you may feel, do not quit!Create Your Own Life.
If you have a clear vision for your life, it's time to start bringing it into existence! Begin by envisioning the life you desire, jotting it down, and then taking the necessary steps to turn that vision into reality, but please note, achieving your dream life will require hard work and perseverance.
Children possess a valuable mindset from which we can learn. They fearlessly embrace their creativity, unrestricted by the concept of failure. However, as adults, we often become apprehensive about our own imaginative abilities and stop dreaming and as a result unconsciously impose limitations on ourselves. A true dreamer allows their mind to wander, unbound by what is visible. Always remember this as you create the life you truly deserve.
We said 10 quotes, but we added 4 more to get you even more motivated
Believe in Yourself: You Got This!
Self-care involves providing yourself with a dose of motivation to overcome challenging moments. But how can you achieve this? The solution is simple: Repeat these affirmations: "I've got this! I can do this!" Speak these words aloud and truly believe in them.
Inhale Confidence, Exhale Doubt: Embrace Self-Assurance
Many of us carry a burden of doubt and negative thoughts. Perhaps you lack confidence in your abilities and believe you are not worthy. You may have come across the saying "fake it until you make it," which also applies to building confidence. Sometimes, you may need to "fake" confidence until it becomes genuine. So, take a deep breath and inhale confidence, then exhale doubt. Embrace self-assurance and let go of uncertainty.
Embrace Fresh Beginnings!
You have the power to start your day afresh. Whether you had a bad day yesterday or are looking forward to a fresh start, be open to the opportunities that may be presented to you. If you made mistakes yesterday, acknowledge them and let them go. Mistakes happen and are not bad in themselves. What is important is how you deal with them and what lessons you learn from them today. Every day is a new day, and is the perfect time to start afresh.
Embrace Your Inner Queen
Self-care involves recognizing your true essence, and the truth is, you are a Queen - a powerful and remarkable individual. However, we often forget this inherent truth. If you're unsure how to tap into your fabulousness, we invite you to read our article, Seven Steps to Activate your Inner Goddess.
Once you've finished reading, go ahead and proudly wear your crown. It symbolises your heritage and serves as a reminder of your regal nature.
Amidst the whirlwind of Valentine's Day festivities, it's crucial to carve out time for self-care and remind yourself of the love and appreciation you deserve. Explore our article on Self Love Ideas For Your Perfect Valentine’s Day to plan your perfect day that celebrates your relationship with yourself.
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